Child care cannot be treated as a childish care. As a matter of fact good child care requires much patience and sympathy on the part of the parents. This is because the child cannot express what it needs exactly. It is the duty of the parents to learn by experience what the child wants to do to satisfy the timely need. Choosing child care service can be an easier process but it is rather a difficult thing to offer good child care. It requires an expert knowledge about the mind of a child and how the child will behave in certain situations.
While the grown ups are knowingly selfish in many things the child does not know what selfish behavior means. However, most of the children are seen to behave with selfish ends without understanding the consequences. Here is required the wise handling of a child. There are some important factors to be considered for recognition to soften the child. A good child care is based on ‘Recognition theory’- the recognition extended to the feelings and expectations of a child. Caring a child can be made easy if the parents choose to fall in line with the anxieties and hidden expectations of the child. Here are the top 3 secrets of providing good child care.
Love and affection: The most needed thing a child wants is ‘Love and affection’ by parents. The child is very happy with the gift of parental love and affection. Though it might be trivial one, there is no difference of opinion in this aspect. In the warmth of the parents, the child gets utmost satisfaction. If you are a good child care provider, you can mend your child as you like with the art of love tone and lending heart. Love and be loved by your child.
Security: Next to love and affection, the child needs an atmosphere of ‘secure’ for future prosperity. To be a secure provider means opening life policies, bank savings, and providing opportunities for earnings. These can be provided only by the parents of the child. Here is the amazing tie up of parental care and child care. When the child feels secure both from internal and external factors, desirable behaviors are formed.
Trust: This is of course the most important factor that any parents should consider. The child should feel every activity of the parents trustworthy. In parental child care, trustworthiness is the baseline to establish a cordial relationship at home.
While the grown ups are knowingly selfish in many things the child does not know what selfish behavior means. However, most of the children are seen to behave with selfish ends without understanding the consequences. Here is required the wise handling of a child. There are some important factors to be considered for recognition to soften the child. A good child care is based on ‘Recognition theory’- the recognition extended to the feelings and expectations of a child. Caring a child can be made easy if the parents choose to fall in line with the anxieties and hidden expectations of the child. Here are the top 3 secrets of providing good child care.
Love and affection: The most needed thing a child wants is ‘Love and affection’ by parents. The child is very happy with the gift of parental love and affection. Though it might be trivial one, there is no difference of opinion in this aspect. In the warmth of the parents, the child gets utmost satisfaction. If you are a good child care provider, you can mend your child as you like with the art of love tone and lending heart. Love and be loved by your child.
Security: Next to love and affection, the child needs an atmosphere of ‘secure’ for future prosperity. To be a secure provider means opening life policies, bank savings, and providing opportunities for earnings. These can be provided only by the parents of the child. Here is the amazing tie up of parental care and child care. When the child feels secure both from internal and external factors, desirable behaviors are formed.
Trust: This is of course the most important factor that any parents should consider. The child should feel every activity of the parents trustworthy. In parental child care, trustworthiness is the baseline to establish a cordial relationship at home.
1 comment:
I agree with the three point you mentioned. Feeling of being loved, protected and cared for are very important to help children grow with a healthy mind and to prevent them becoming delinquent. Nice. I intend looking more into your blog.
In fact, I have just taken up a story titled: What did I learn from Sanjay? The idea has been conceived based on real experience and the formatting is being taken. You may be able to see this in my blog in the days to come.
In the meantime, you may look at my blog when it is convenient.
T N Neelakantan
www.neel48.blogspot.com
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